How to understand that a man is in love, but hides his feelings
In matters of love, modesty is inherent in the strong half of humanity. Men become shy and modest when it comes to real feelings. More emotional and courageous in this regard, women sometimes need to push the chosen one to recognition. How to do it delicately and how to understand that a man is in love, but hides his feelings?
A common reason why the representatives of the stronger sex hide their feelings - the fear that he will not meet with reciprocity will be rejected or even ridiculed. Paradoxical though it may sound, but when it comes to real feelings, the stronger sex can become indecisive and capricious. And here the main thing is to understand whether the satellite is really in love and, after being convinced of a positive result, help it to open up.
Why can a man hide his feelings?
Many women are familiar with the situation when the beloved does not show signs of attention, does not show feelings.Men just do not understand that if you hide your feelings, a woman can soon doubt their existence. Women are very important to realize that they are loved and expensive. Strong embraces, pleasant words and displays of feelings are simply necessary for women, without them they feel alone. There are doubts and jealousy. Why does a man, even experiencing a love for a chosen one, hide feelings? There are several such reasons.
- No matter how trite it may sound, the strong half is so accepted. Emotionality, in their opinion, is a typically female trait, and a real man should be restrained and not show emotions and feelings.
- The society is not very well perceive too impulsive, emotional men.
In fact, men are often no less sensitive than women, but public opinion and stereotypes make them restrained. There is an opinion that ladies adore brutal, rude men, and many guys, wanting popularity, try to match this image. This is one of the ways to create and maintain an image.
- Men are afraid to get the title of henpecked. Entering into a serious relationship, he fears that the chosen one, having learned about the depth of feelings, will begin to manipulate them.Each representative of the stronger sex values freedom and independence, and even realizing that he wants to be always with his lady, he does not want to lose them. The way out of the situation is to restrain feelings, not to give them will.
- In the men's community there is an opinion that a man in love is a weak person. Being in love makes it weaker and more vulnerable. In order not to look like a weakling in the circle of friends and acquaintances, a man does not show feelings.
- The fourth reason was remarkably described by the classic: “The more we love a girl, the less we like her”. According to a popular opinion, a woman, having learned that a man has fallen in love, may lose interest. This behavior maintains interest in the opposite field, adds mystery to the gentleman.
The last reason sounds like a “way to protect.” By nature, men are vulnerable and sensitive. For them, a frank declaration of love is comparable to voluntary surrender, it is the same as to lay your head on the scaffold, remove your helmet and fold the sword. Sneakiness and silence - a kind of armor, protecting the sensitive heart.
Signs of being in love with a man
To understand if your prince is in love with you, you need to watch his behavior very closely when he is with you.
- Describes in detail about himself and his loved ones.If the satellite constantly supports the conversation, talks a lot about himself, trying to make a positive impression, it means that he became interested in the woman. Thus, he lets the chosen one into his life, gives him the opportunity to get acquainted with things that are important to him. If the lady does not miss the chance, shows sincere interest, listens carefully, helps to open up, this will be the first step towards a long relationship.
- Listening carefully and hearing companion. A clear sign of male interest. In this case, a woman can create the necessary impression about herself by telling about hobbies, priorities in life ... This is a wonderful moment for searching for common interests, points of contact.
- He began to take care of himself more carefully. When a man begins to devote more time to his appearance: he buys new clothes, enters the gym, carefully selects an image - this is a sure sign that the one he wants to like and appear from the most profitable sides has appeared.
- Care. If a man helps carry heavy bags or offers help with household chores, this may indicate not just politeness and good manners.Repeated manifestations of care may well indicate the indifference of the gentleman.
- Thoughts about stable earnings, material well-being. If earlier a man was not interested in welfare, but now he seriously thought about it, perhaps he was thinking about creating a family.
Psychology of a man in love
Behavior of men in love
In addition to obvious signs, pay attention to non-verbal, unconscious. The main thing is to correctly read sign language and facial expressions.
- No matter how loving he tries to hide his feelings, his body is tense, a little constrained.
- Hands may shiver from constraint or excitement, palms sweat.
- Crossed arms talk about trying to close. When a man opens, straightens his shoulders, he demonstrates his body, flaunts, attracts attention.
- One can assume about physical attraction if a man periodically touches a belt or puts his hands on his hips.
- Reducing the distance when talking. When falling in love, a man tries to approach at any opportunity, to penetrate into personal space.
Facial expressions and gaze
Unconscious views in the direction of the object of love. An interested person wants to enjoy, admire the image of his beloved.
It is very difficult for a lover to control his view, if, of course, he is not an intelligence agent. Noticing how a man looks, it is easy to determine if he is in love. In the eyes of a man in relation to his beloved shines admiration. Often unconsciously, the gaze stops on the lips while talking. Realizing that it is indecent to gaze at the beloved, men begin to hide their eyes, look on the sly. But these views are so frequent that they are easy to catch.
The behavior of a man in love is often unstable. Constant change of mood from thoughtfulness and lyricism to fun and relaxedness.
What should a woman do?
If a woman in a familiar man notices signs of falling in love, it is worth assessing whether she wants to develop relationships. If sympathy is mutual, you can show reciprocal attention. If for any reason the relationship is impossible or undesirable, you should get away from them, but delicately so as not to offend the man.
To make the right conclusion about the man's love, you need to soberly evaluate and analyze his behavior.If all the signs indicate the presence of warm feelings, it is necessary to support them in every way. In some cases, it is enough to have a charming smile, an approving remark, a compliment, a sincere, interested look to inspire the knight for feats.
Sometimes only a hint of interest on the part of a woman inspires a man and can be the first step towards a declaration of love.
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